See if the internet can verify that this person is real. Do an online search for the person. What returns do you get? Do the things you read match up with their claims? For example, does their Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc. If you are chatting with a John Smith or a Mary Brown, an online search will reveal many people. You may be able to confirm where they live by using an online telephone directory or electoral register depending on what country they say they are from.
Be wary of people, especially men, who say they're US military officers, especially if they use pictures of people in uniform on their profiles. Sometimes their photos are not of US officers at all - someone whose cap badge with a crown on it may be British, Australian or Canadian, but not American. And if they're outside the US, where are they serving?
European countries like Switzerland and Ireland are neutral, so it's highly unlikely that serving US officers would be based there. Are they where they say they are? There are ways of being able to identify what country an email was sent from by tracing the IP address. For example, IP addresses beginning with '41' are in West Africa, a hotbed of scams. However, this may not be available, and in any case, they may tell you up front they are in that part of the world.
If they say they are in another country, treat with extreme caution anyone who is in West Africa. Scammers posing as men may say they are on business there, while those posing as women will say they are working in orphanages. Scammers in Nigeria or Ghana have started operating from other countries in the region, such as Benin, Togo or Senegal although local people may also be involved and have even got as far as Malaysia, from where they can target Singapore and Australia.
Learn about these countries and see how it matches what you're being told about them. There is no civil war in Zimbabwe. Nor is there a refugee camp in Dakar, Senegal full of attractive young black women who have escaped from civil war in Liberia or Zimbabwe, least of all the daughters of deceased politicians who have left them million-dollar legacies in bank accounts in Europe.
It's a variation on the scam. The woman in the photo doesn't know you, let alone love you enough to give you a share of an inheritance in return for you paying legal fees by Western Union. Forget about pursuing the relationship if you're asked for money.
The standard reason someone asks for money online from someone they don't know is that they're out to scam you. This should immediately cause you to be concerned about the genuineness of the other person. Don't get too involved in asking why the person wants the money.
It's bad enough that he or she has asked you without giving space for elaborate and ultimately false reasons for needing it. The more elaborate the story, the faster you should run. A simple "no" should suffice; if it's meant to be, the budding relationship will survive your firm response! Watch out for emails or messages that sound desperate, pleading and persistent in response to your unwillingness to send money. This isn't love, it's money hunger. Just stay away if there are any signs of scams.
Even if you manage to identify a scammer earlier rather than later, never confront them. Even if you're baiting them for fun, however tempting it may be to expose them and ridicule them for being so unconvincing, all they will do is change their email account, their photos, and their profiles, and carry on as before, possibly with more success.
Just cease communicating with them, block their emails, and don't take their phone calls, just as you would a threatening or abusive ex-partner. Share what information you have on a scammer, including photos used, email addresses, aliases, telephone numbers and text used in correspondence on websites exposing scammers. You may find the text has been used before, with a few changes, while photos of that person you thought you met on the dating site may have 'scammer' or 'stolen' superimposed.
Part 1 Quiz Which of the following indicates that a person isn't who he or she claims? The person writes in broken English. He or she asks you for money. The person's profile photo shows a younger person than what he or she claims as their age. All of the above. Really listen to the questions they ask of you. What kind of questions are you being asked? This is a common mistake made by so many but in reality, what does it matter what kind of money you earn or the value of your house?
Of course, many scam artists will not be so obvious, but it can happen and does on a regular basis so if the conversation starts to steer towards finances, it might be time to close the account! Be wary if the person you've just cyber-met asks probing questions to do with your finances, your personal life and the people you know. Tell the person you're uncomfortable giving away any such information to something you've yet to meet. Scam artists commonly try to shift the relationship into intimacy really quickly, because they want things to get moving namely, your money and assets.
Unfortunately, this can be complicated. There are also scam artists who are quite willing to put in a long time cultivating a fake relationship with you until they feel they've gained your trust. Keep personal data to yourself. Until you meet this person for real, keep things superficial and pleasant. There is no need to passing on intimate details of your life and there is no way in the world this person you've yet to meet needs your social security or bank account numbers. Also, be aware that the more you reveal about yourself, the more leverage you give a scam artist to pinpoint a weak spot that they may try to manipulate you with.
Be aware that some scam artists use the "intimate" information to get back at you. They cajole, wheedle and stroke your ego to get the information, then they threaten you with revealing personal secrets unless you send money. You don't even have reassurance that they won't reveal what you've said even if you do pay! Bear this in mind before you let down your guard. Part 2 Quiz True or false: Consider keeping your online dating local. It is much easier to be scammed when the person lives thousands of miles from you or is oceans away. I just received the confirmation email too that I was successfully verified.
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